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Marriage, Couples, and Individual Counseling

Online and on Valencia Street in the Mission District of San Francisco

I believe our minds and emotions determine our perception and behavior in the world. As Anaïs Nin said, “We don't see the world as it is, but as we are.” We enhance ourselves and our relationships by gaining insight into how our minds and emotions work, leading to new emotional experiences of ourselves and each other. Clients who derive the most benefit from therapy with me value openness and self-reflection, and are committed to learning how to become the best versions of themselves.
I promise that if you engage with me collaboratively in therapy, you and your partner can look forward to a deeper understanding of yourselves and each other, leading to improved communication, increased empathy, and a stronger emotional bond. You’ll learn practical tools and strategies to navigate challenges, resolve conflicts, and build a healthier, more fulfilling relationship.


Photo of the comfortable San Francisco office of Dr. Robert Solley, psychotherapist for individuals and couples.

The same skills you learn in couples therapy can be applied to all your relationships.


The earlier you get help, the easier it is to create the relationship you want and deserve together.


Don’t waste another day — contact me now for a free, personal phone consultation!


I have more than 60 relationship articles on Here's a “starter pack” if you'd like to learn more about how I think or would like some overview. Also good to revisit if you last read them awhile ago — different parts will tend to stand out or be helpful at different times. See more topics on my blog page.

Dr. Robert Solley • Solutions 4 Couples

1195 Valencia Street

San Francisco, CA 94110

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(415) 550-8725

Note: For your preference or convenience, I am currently offering sessions both in-person at my Mission District office and online by Zoom.

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